Grief & Loss

Preserving Self-Worth While Job Hunting

Joella Ranaivoson

Are you struggling to hold on to your self esteem amid the rejections of job hunting? Consider how Christians are called to view work and find their identity.

Living in The Wake of a Suicide Attempt

Jean Holthaus, LMSW, LISW

When someone we love feels hopeless and attempts ending their own life, our world is shaken. Find God's hope and encouragement for moving forward.

Navigating Grief: Families in the Shadow of Death

Rev. Dr. Steven Koster

Is your family grieving the loss of someone you love? Consider how you can help your family navigate the challenging emotions and experience God's comfort.

Walking the Valley of Grief: Write Your Own Psalm of Lament

Rev. Dr. Steven Koster

Do you struggle with how to express painful emotions to God? Choose to follow the psalmists and write your own song of lament to give your pain to God.

Navigating the Guilt that Accompanies Grief

Jalicia Maeweather

Guilt is often linked to grief as we ask "but what if" looking for a different outcome. Consider God's plan for our days and learn to forgive yourself.

Why Does God Let Me Suffer?

Rev. Dr. Steven Koster

Are you in a hard season and feeling like God is punishing you? Discover how God responds to our pain and the role God plays in life's difficult seasons.

When Grief Looks Like Depression

Jalicia Maeweather

Grief and depression often become intertwined in our lives. Discover how you can engage the difficult feelings as you grieve and rediscover joy and hope.

It’s Okay to Be Angry as You Grieve

Jalicia Maeweather

Are you struggling with having anger mixed in with your grief? Learn how to express your anger in constructive ways as you process the grief you feel.

Denial In Grief

Jalicia Maeweather

Denial is part of the grieving process but denying or avoiding pain is not a healthy coping strategy. Consider taking your pain to God for healing instead.

Coping as a Single Parent: Four ways God Showed He Would Not Leave

Christopher Hunt

Are you feeling alone in your struggles? Consider this wisdom from scripture on how God perseveres with you through difficulties and guides your steps.

Talking to Children about Death

Rev. Joel Vande Werken

When death invades your community, how will you talk about it with your children? Discover biblical wisdom for guiding your children through grief.

How Do I Manage Frustration?

Rev. Deb Koster

Frustrations are a normal part of life but don't let them control you. Discover these helpful biblical guidelines for managing frustrations constructively!
Date Title Author Topics
March 12, 2023 Preserving Self-Worth While Job Hunting Joella Ranaivoson Dating, Living Single, Spirituality, Grief & Loss
February 22, 2023 Living in The Wake of a Suicide Attempt Jean Holthaus, LMSW, LISW Parenting, Parenting Teens, Parenting Adults, Spirituality, Grief & Loss
February 19, 2023 Navigating Grief: Families in the Shadow of Death Rev. Dr. Steven Koster Parenting, Parenting Kids, Spirituality, Grief & Loss
February 8, 2023 Walking the Valley of Grief: Write Your Own Psalm of Lament Rev. Dr. Steven Koster Spirituality, Spiritual Intimacy, Grief & Loss
October 12, 2022 Navigating the Guilt that Accompanies Grief Jalicia Maeweather Spirituality, Grief & Loss
October 9, 2022 Why Does God Let Me Suffer? Rev. Dr. Steven Koster Spirituality, Grief & Loss
October 5, 2022 When Grief Looks Like Depression Jalicia Maeweather Spirituality, Grief & Loss
August 31, 2022 It’s Okay to Be Angry as You Grieve Jalicia Maeweather Spirituality, Grief & Loss
August 28, 2022 Denial In Grief Jalicia Maeweather Spirituality, Grief & Loss
July 24, 2022 Coping as a Single Parent: Four ways God Showed He Would Not Leave Christopher Hunt Dating, Single Again, Marriage, Divorce & Remarriage, Parenting, Single Parenting, Spirituality, Grief & Loss
July 10, 2022 Talking to Children about Death Rev. Joel Vande Werken Parenting, Parenting Kids, Spiritual Nurturing, Spirituality, Grief & Loss
June 8, 2022 How Do I Manage Frustration? Rev. Deb Koster Marriage, Conflict & Crisis, Parenting, Parenting Kids, Spirituality, Grief & Loss
January 12, 2022 Praying Through the Valley: Overcoming Grief Jolene DeHeer Spirituality, Spiritual Intimacy, Grief & Loss
January 9, 2022 Praying Through the Valley: Discovering My Self-Worth Jolene DeHeer Spirituality, Spiritual Intimacy, Grief & Loss
January 2, 2022 Help! My Procrastination is Hurting My Relationships Rev. Deb Koster Marriage, Conflict & Crisis, Spirituality, Grief & Loss
October 17, 2021 How Do I Forgive: Write a Letter of Lament and Forgiveness Rev. Dr. Steven Koster Dating, Challenges & Conflict, Marriage, Conflict & Crisis, Grandparenting, Boundaries & Conflict, Spirituality, Grief & Loss
October 6, 2021 Exploring an Eternal Perspective for Earthly Grief Laura Goossens, MSW, LCSW Spirituality, Grief & Loss
October 3, 2021 Lamenting Life's Losses Joella Ranaivoson Spirituality, Grief & Loss
September 22, 2021 Praying Through the Valley: Finding Hope Amid Loss Jolene DeHeer Spirituality, Grief & Loss
September 19, 2021 Help for Navigating Depression Joella Ranaivoson Spirituality, Grief & Loss
July 11, 2021 How Best to Handle Stress: Take a Lesson from Older Adults Dr. Robert Ritzema Grandparenting, Being In-Laws, Boundaries & Conflict, Spirituality, Grief & Loss
June 30, 2021 How has Pandemic Living Affected Your Relationships? Joella Ranaivoson Spirituality, Grief & Loss
June 9, 2021 Persevering Through a Difficult Season Joella Ranaivoson Spirituality, Grief & Loss
June 6, 2021 How to Move Forward After Messing Up Laura Goossens, MSW, LCSW Dating, Challenges & Conflict, Marriage, Conflict & Crisis, Grandparenting, Boundaries & Conflict, Spirituality, Grief & Loss
May 19, 2021 Transforming Your Emotions Rev. Deb Koster Marriage, Conflict & Crisis, Spirituality, Grief & Loss
May 16, 2021 How Can I Ever Forgive Myself? Rev. Dr. Rob Toornstra Spirituality, Grief & Loss
April 21, 2021 When God Seems Silent Rev. Deb Koster Spirituality, Spiritual Intimacy, Grief & Loss
April 18, 2021 How do I cope with the aftermath of a suicide? Laura Goossens, MSW, LCSW Spirituality, Grief & Loss
April 11, 2021 Coping with Betrayal Rev. Deb Koster Marriage, Divorce & Remarriage, Spirituality, Grief & Loss
February 28, 2021 Laying My Burdens Down Rev. Deb Koster Spirituality, Grief & Loss
January 31, 2021 How to Care for Hurting People: Showing Empathy Rev. Deb Koster Spirituality, Grief & Loss
January 13, 2021 Give Yourself the Gift of Kindness Joy Bocanegra, MA, LCPC Grandparenting, Being Grandparents, Spirituality, Grief & Loss
December 20, 2020 What if I Infect a Loved One with COVID? Laura Goossens, MSW, LCSW Spirituality, Grief & Loss
December 16, 2020 Finding Hope Kim Sullivan Spirituality, Spiritual Intimacy, Grief & Loss
December 9, 2020 Help for Forgiving Yourself Rev. Dr. Steven Koster Marriage, Conflict & Crisis, Divorce & Remarriage, Spirituality, Grief & Loss
December 6, 2020 Preparing for Christmas in a Pandemic Rev. Deb Koster Grandparenting, Family Holidays, Spirituality, Grief & Loss
December 2, 2020 Praying Psalms: God's Gift for Sleepless Nights Rev. Jason Ruis Spirituality, Grief & Loss
October 25, 2020 Battling Isolation and Loneliness During a Pandemic Aneece Alicea, MA, LMHC Dating, Living Single, Spirituality, Grief & Loss
October 14, 2020 In The Ruins…God Sees You Rev. Dr. Rob Toornstra Spirituality, Spiritual Intimacy, Grief & Loss
September 30, 2020 Helping Your Child Battle the Grief-monster Debi Mitchell, MS, LMFT Parenting, Parenting Kids, Spirituality, Grief & Loss
September 27, 2020 Set Aside Anxiety By Practicing Radical Acceptance Jessica Parks, MSW, LCSW Dating, Living Single, Spirituality, Grief & Loss
September 23, 2020 Healing for Burnout in the Workplace Kathy Krentkowski, MA, LCPC, LMHC Spirituality, Spiritual Nurturing, Grief & Loss
August 30, 2020 Crossing Barriers and Learning to Love My Neighbor Rev. Deb Koster Spirituality, Grief & Loss
August 19, 2020 Break Free of Negative Thinking Kim Pronoitis, MA, LCPC Dating, Living Single, Spirituality, Grief & Loss
July 29, 2020 Navigating Life's Disappointments Rev. Deb Koster Marriage, Conflict & Crisis, Divorce & Remarriage, Spirituality, Grief & Loss
June 7, 2020 Finding the Blessings in Slowing Joy Bocanegra, MA, LCPC Spirituality, Spiritual Intimacy, Grief & Loss
May 31, 2020 Turning COVID-19 Anxiety into Prayer Christopher Hunt Parenting, Spiritual Nurturing, Spirituality, Spiritual Nurturing, Grief & Loss
May 24, 2020 Scripture's Promises in Tough Times Rev. Deb Koster Spirituality, Family Devotions & Worship, Grief & Loss
May 20, 2020 Riding the Emotional Roller Coaster Rev. Deb Koster Spirituality, Spiritual Intimacy, Grief & Loss
May 10, 2020 Family Grieving: Navigating Loss Together Kim Sullivan Spirituality, Grief & Loss
May 3, 2020 Caring for Others Requires Caring for Ourselves Kim Sullivan Parenting, Parenting Kids, Parenting Teens, Spirituality, Grief & Loss
April 26, 2020 Navigating anxiety Rev. Dr. Rob Toornstra Spirituality, Grief & Loss
April 19, 2020 Lament as a Response to Loss Rev. Dr. Bret Lamsma Spirituality, Grief & Loss
April 15, 2020 Toxic Positivity Kathryn DeYoung, LCPC, LMHC Marriage, Communication, Spirituality, Grief & Loss
April 12, 2020 Where is God When Your World Falls Apart Rev. Dr. Rob Toornstra Spirituality, Grief & Loss
April 5, 2020 When life feels overwhelming Rev. Deb Koster Spirituality, Grief & Loss
March 25, 2020 Healing Binge Eating: A Journey Toward Wholeness Jessica Parks, MSW, LCSW Parenting, Parenting Teens, Spirituality, Grief & Loss
March 4, 2020 Owning Our Helplessness Rev. Jason Ruis Parenting, Parenting Kids, Spiritual Nurturing, Spirituality, Spiritual Nurturing, Grief & Loss
February 23, 2020 What Should I Do When Shame and Guilt Consume Me? Kathryn DeYoung, LCPC, LMHC Spirituality, Grief & Loss
February 5, 2020 What Could You Gain from Counseling? Rev. Deb Koster Dating, Challenges & Conflict, Marriage, Conflict & Crisis, Parenting, Discipline, Grandparenting, Boundaries & Conflict, Spirituality, Spiritual Intimacy, Grief & Loss
February 2, 2020 Facing Financial Challenges Joy Bocanegra, MA, LCPC Marriage, Conflict & Crisis, Spirituality, Grief & Loss
January 5, 2020 Why Am I Angry? Kathy Krentkowski, MA, LCPC, LMHC Dating, Challenges & Conflict, Marriage, Conflict & Crisis, Grandparenting, Boundaries & Conflict, Spirituality, Spiritual Intimacy, Grief & Loss
November 24, 2019 6 Lessons for Surviving a Big Move Kim Sullivan Spirituality, Grief & Loss
November 10, 2019 Learning to Practice Self-Care Rev. Deb Koster Spirituality, Grief & Loss
October 20, 2019 4 Tips To Help Families Cope With the Loss of a Pet Kim Sullivan Spirituality, Grief & Loss
October 9, 2019 Being Thankful in the Middle of Not Enough Kim Sullivan Spirituality, Grief & Loss
August 7, 2019 Not What We Dreamed Nadia Swearingen-Friesen Parenting, New Parents, Parenting Kids, Spirituality, Grief & Loss
August 4, 2019 Facing Your Fears Kathy Krentkowski, MA, LCPC, LMHC Spirituality, Grief & Loss
July 24, 2019 Caring for the Emotional Struggles of Generation Z Dr. Robert Ritzema Parenting, Parenting Teens, Spirituality, Grief & Loss
July 21, 2019 Moving Past the Stigma of Mental Illness Kim Pronoitis, MA, LCPC Spirituality, Grief & Loss
April 28, 2019 Is Bitterness Making You Sick? Debra Crockett, MSW, LSW Spirituality, Spiritual Intimacy, Grief & Loss
April 24, 2019 Finding Your Identity Rev. Deb Koster Spirituality, Spiritual Intimacy, Grief & Loss
April 21, 2019 Eating Disorders: It’s More Than Food Marissa DeGroot, MSW, LSW Spirituality, Grief & Loss
April 17, 2019 Dwelling with God Kathy Krentkowski, MA, LCPC, LMHC Spirituality, Spiritual Intimacy, Grief & Loss
January 27, 2019 Confronting My Fears Rev. Kelly Vander Woude Spirituality, Spiritual Intimacy, Grief & Loss
November 14, 2018 Obtaining a New Mancard: Facing Unemployment Rev. Kelly Vander Woude Spirituality, Grief & Loss
November 11, 2018 What to do with the Wintertime Blues Debi Mitchell, MS, LMFT Spirituality, Grief & Loss
November 7, 2018 Confronting our Mortality Rev. Kelly Vander Woude Spirituality, Grief & Loss
September 30, 2018 Rejoice in the Lord Always? O Boy... Rev. Kelly Vander Woude Spirituality, Grief & Loss
September 16, 2018 Finding Peace Amid Pain Rev. Kelly Vander Woude Spirituality, Grief & Loss
August 29, 2018 When an Adult Child is Mentally Ill : Dos and Don'ts of Responding Dr. Robert Ritzema Parenting, Parenting Adults, Spirituality, Grief & Loss
August 26, 2018 When an Adult Child is Mentally Ill: Handling Feelings Dr. Robert Ritzema Parenting, Parenting Adults, Spirituality, Grief & Loss
August 22, 2018 How to Help a Grieving Child Mimi Larson Parenting, Parenting Kids, Spirituality, Grief & Loss
August 15, 2018 Moving the Body to Heal the Mind Kim Pronoitis, MA, LCPC Spirituality, Grief & Loss
August 12, 2018 Surviving and Thriving after Mid-Life Rev. Joel Vande Werken Spirituality, Grief & Loss
June 7, 2018 I Didn’t Sign Up For This Matthew Potter, MEd, LCPC Spirituality, Grief & Loss
May 31, 2018 The Life that Could Have Been: Walking Through Miscarriage Karen Krygsheld, MSW, LCSW Spirituality, Grief & Loss
May 28, 2018 Reconciling My Impatience with God Rev. Kelly Vander Woude Spirituality, Grief & Loss
May 7, 2018 Finding Hope Amid Suffering Rev. Kelly Vander Woude Spirituality, Spiritual Intimacy, Grief & Loss
April 23, 2018 Choosing Sabbath Rest Rev. Kelly Vander Woude Spirituality, Spiritual Intimacy, Grief & Loss
December 30, 2017 Struggle Together: Talking with our Youth about Suicide Karen Krygsheld, MSW, LCSW Parenting, Parenting Teens, Spirituality, Grief & Loss
December 23, 2017 I Pray on Christmas Rev. Deb Koster Spirituality, Grief & Loss
December 21, 2017 Choosing Joy over Happiness Rev. Kelly Vander Woude Spirituality, Grief & Loss
November 13, 2017 Seven Signs of Unidentified Grief Anne Mirza, MSW, LCSW Spirituality, Grief & Loss
November 9, 2017 Don’t Believe all Your Thoughts Gregory Rodriguez, MA, LCPC Spirituality, Grief & Loss
November 6, 2017 Body, Mind, and Spirit all Work Together: Self-Care and Stress-Busters! Kim Pronoitis, MA, LCPC Spirituality, Grief & Loss
October 30, 2017 You are Not Alone: Living with Bipolar Mental Illness Kim Pronoitis, MA, LCPC Spirituality, Grief & Loss
September 7, 2017 5 Ways You Give the Devil a Foothold in Your Life Rev. Deb Koster Spirituality, Spiritual Intimacy, Grief & Loss
August 31, 2017 Our Road Map Through the Storm Rev. Deb Koster Marriage, Conflict & Crisis, Spirituality, Grief & Loss
July 10, 2017 Claim God's Victory Kim Sullivan Spirituality, Grief & Loss
July 6, 2017 Anxiety and the Power of "Why" Vanessa Cruz, MA, LPC Spirituality, Grief & Loss
May 22, 2017 The Benefits of Hardship Dr. Robert Ritzema Spirituality, Spiritual Intimacy, Grief & Loss
May 18, 2017 Why so Sad, My Soul? The Aftermath of Abortion Lynne Scherschel, MS, LMFT Spirituality, Grief & Loss
April 13, 2017 The Gift of Sacrifice Rev. Deb Koster Spirituality, Spiritual Intimacy, Grief & Loss
January 9, 2017 Helping a Child Grieve Debi Mitchell, MS, LMFT Parenting, Parenting Kids, Spirituality, Grief & Loss
December 15, 2016 Grieving During the Holidays: 9 Ways to Cope Lynne Scherschel, MS, LMFT Spirituality, Grief & Loss
December 8, 2016 When Life Feels Overwhelming Rev. Deb Koster Spirituality, Grief & Loss
December 5, 2016 Finding Healing Through Writing Kathy Konrath, LCPC, LMHC Spirituality, Spiritual Intimacy, Grief & Loss
November 14, 2016 Follow Me as I Follow Christ Rev. Deb Koster Parenting, Spiritual Nurturing, Grandparenting, Mentoring Faith, Spirituality, Spiritual Nurturing, Grief & Loss
October 10, 2016 Learning to Live Through Loss Rev. Deb Koster Spirituality, Grief & Loss
September 22, 2016 Parenting Children with Disabilities: Finding Hope and Joy Rev. Mark Stephenson Parenting, Parenting Kids, Spirituality, Grief & Loss
September 19, 2016 Parenting Children with Disabilities: Facing the Challenges Rev. Mark Stephenson Parenting, Parenting Kids, Spirituality, Grief & Loss
December 7, 2015 The Joy and Pain of Motherhood Aneece Alicea, MA, LMHC Parenting, New Parents, Spirituality, Grief & Loss
September 24, 2015 Family Brokenness: God Uses Our Mess Rev. Mark Pluimer Marriage, Conflict & Crisis, Divorce & Remarriage, Spirituality, Grief & Loss
April 16, 2015 Teen Self-Harm: What Parents Need to Know Jessica Parks, MSW, LCSW Parenting, Parenting Kids, Parenting Teens, Spirituality, Grief & Loss
February 16, 2015 How Do I Keep My Family Safe? Kim Sullivan Parenting, New Parents, Parenting Kids, Parenting Teens, Spiritual Nurturing, Spirituality, Grief & Loss
February 12, 2015 Demonstrating God's Love: Caring For Your Spouse Rev. Deb Koster Marriage, Growing Your Marriage, Conflict & Crisis, Grandparenting, Being Grandparents, Spirituality, Devotions for Couples, Spiritual Intimacy, Grief & Loss
January 26, 2015 Parenting Transitions: Dealing with the Empty Nest Kelsi Kellen Parenting, Parenting Teens, Parenting Adults, Spiritual Nurturing, Spirituality, Grief & Loss
October 30, 2014 Finding Spiritual Renewal in the 12 Steps Kathy Konrath, LCPC, LMHC Dating, Challenges & Conflict, Marriage, Conflict & Crisis, Grandparenting, Boundaries & Conflict, Spirituality, Grief & Loss
July 2, 2014 Grieving in Silence: Life After a Miscarriage Aneece Alicea, MA, LMHC Spirituality, Grief & Loss
March 11, 2014 Living with Loss: Being Single…Again. Debi Mitchell, MS, LMFT Dating, Single Again, Spirituality, Grief & Loss
August 26, 2013 Helping Your marriage navigate the death of a child Rev. Deb Koster Marriage, Conflict & Crisis, Spirituality, Grief & Loss

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