Sexuality

Understanding and Help For The Sexless Marriage

Dr. Robert Ritzema

Has the physical intimacy left your marriage? Discover Biblical wisdom on the importance of sexuality in marriage and look for ways to restore intimacy.

Does God Expect Our Marriage to Include Sex?

Rev. Dr. Rob Toornstra

Does God care whether or not you and your spouse are having sex? God’s intention for marriage is that couples would enjoy the gift of sexual intimacy.

Steps for Overcoming Pornography Use

Rev. Dr. Rob Toornstra

Has pornography has become a struggle in your life? Take these important steps for breaking free from addiction and discover God's unfailing grace.

Can "Ethical" Porn Enhance Your Marriage?

Rev. Dr. Rob Toornstra

Do you wonder if it is okay for Christians to consume “ethical" pornography? Discover four ways that pornography impacts the health of your marriage.

How physical should a dating relationship be?

Rev. Deb Koster

Sex belongs in marriage, but what is allowed in a dating relationship? Discover wisdom from scripture for how to honor God in your dating relationships.

Uprooting the Idols in Our Families

Rev. Dr. Rob Toornstra

We all have idols that take the place of God in our lives. Let scripture guide you to uproot the idols in your life and restore your relationship with God.

Lies The Church Tells About Sex

Rev. Dr. Rob Toornstra

The church has at times embraced anxiety concerning sex. Explore the scriptures and discover how sex is a beautiful gift from God for marriage.

Lies Our Culture Tells About Sex

Rev. Dr. Rob Toornstra

Our culture's perceptions about sex often conflict with God's plan for unity and blessing in marriage. Explore the blessing of God's design for intimacy.

Building an Intimate Marriage

Rev. Deb Koster

Intimacy is fueled by everyday acts of investing in one another's lives. Discover ways to invest in deepening your relationship by cultivating intimacy.

Sex After Kids Arrive?

Rev. Dr. Rob Toornstra

Has your love life suffered or even disappeared since the birth of your baby? Discover how prioritizing your sexual relationship can bless your marriage.

Cultivating Invitational Love

Rev. Deb Koster

Are you looking to spark some romance in your marriage? Choose a path of vulnerability by taking the initiative in kindling romance in your marriage.

How to Improve Your Sex Life

Rev. Dr. Rob Toornstra

Christian marriages should have a healthy and active sex life. Discover how to improve your physical intimacy by investing in your marriage relationship.
Date Title Author Topics
February 15, 2023 Understanding and Help For The Sexless Marriage Dr. Robert Ritzema Marriage, Newlyweds, Growing Your Marriage, Sex & Marriage, Sexuality, Sex & Marriage
February 12, 2023 Does God Expect Our Marriage to Include Sex? Rev. Dr. Rob Toornstra Marriage, Sex & Marriage, Sexuality, Sex & Marriage
January 11, 2023 Steps for Overcoming Pornography Use Rev. Dr. Rob Toornstra Dating, Sex & Dating, Sexuality, Sex & Marriage
January 8, 2023 Can "Ethical" Porn Enhance Your Marriage? Rev. Dr. Rob Toornstra Marriage, Sex & Marriage, Sexuality, Sex & Marriage
June 22, 2022 How physical should a dating relationship be? Rev. Deb Koster Dating, Dating Well, Sex & Dating, Sexuality, Sex & Dating
June 5, 2022 Uprooting the Idols in Our Families Rev. Dr. Rob Toornstra Marriage, Conflict & Crisis, Sex & Marriage, Sexuality, Sex & Marriage, Spirituality, Spiritual Nurturing, Mentoring Faith
May 25, 2022 Lies The Church Tells About Sex Rev. Dr. Rob Toornstra Dating, Sex & Dating, Marriage, Sex & Marriage, Sexuality, Sex & Dating, Sex & Marriage
May 22, 2022 Lies Our Culture Tells About Sex Rev. Dr. Rob Toornstra Dating, Sex & Dating, Marriage, Sex & Marriage, Sexuality, Sex & Dating, Sex & Marriage
April 27, 2022 Building an Intimate Marriage Rev. Deb Koster Dating, Marriage Preparation, Marriage, Growing Your Marriage, Sex & Marriage, Sexuality, Sex & Marriage, Spirituality, Spiritual Intimacy
March 30, 2022 Sex After Kids Arrive? Rev. Dr. Rob Toornstra Parenting, New Parents, Sex & Parenting
February 16, 2022 Cultivating Invitational Love Rev. Deb Koster Marriage, Growing Your Marriage, Sex & Marriage, Sexuality, Sex & Marriage
November 10, 2021 How to Improve Your Sex Life Rev. Dr. Rob Toornstra Marriage, Growing Your Marriage, Sexuality, Sex & Marriage
November 7, 2021 Biblical Guidelines for Sexually Healthy Relationships Rev. Deb Koster Dating, Living Single, Dating Well, Marriage Preparation, Sex & Dating, Marriage, Sex & Marriage, Sexuality, Sex & Dating, Sex & Marriage
August 25, 2021 Help for Overcoming Pornography Rev. Dr. Rob Toornstra Sexuality, Sex & Dating, Sex & Marriage, Sex & Parenting
August 22, 2021 When You Discover Your Spouse Has a Porn Habit Rev. Dr. Rob Toornstra Marriage, Conflict & Crisis, Sex & Marriage, Sexuality, Sex & Marriage
May 17, 2020 Cultivating Intimacy in Your Marriage Rev. Dr. Rob Toornstra Marriage, Sex & Marriage, Sexuality, Sex & Marriage
March 11, 2020 Love Your Spouse: Body and Soul Rev. Jason Ruis Marriage, Growing Your Marriage, Sex & Marriage, Sexuality, Sex & Marriage
February 9, 2020 Initiating Sex with Your Spouse Rev. Dr. Rob Toornstra Marriage, Sex & Marriage
September 25, 2019 How Does Pornography Affect the Viewer? Rev. Jason Ruis Parenting, Sex & Parenting, Sexuality, Sex & Dating, Sex & Marriage
September 22, 2019 Why Is Pornography Destructive? Rev. Jason Ruis Sexuality, Sex & Dating, Sex & Marriage, Sex & Parenting
September 8, 2019 Four Lies You Should Believe to Ruin Your Sex Life Rev. Dr. Rob Toornstra Marriage, Sex & Marriage
February 20, 2019 How Far is Too Far? Rev. Dr. Rob Toornstra Dating, Sex & Dating, Sexuality, Sex & Dating
January 9, 2019 How Sex Changes Relationships Rev. Dr. Rob Toornstra Dating, Sex & Dating, Marriage, Sex & Marriage, Sexuality, Sex & Dating, Sex & Parenting
October 31, 2018 Challenging the Myths of Talking to Your Kids About Sex Rev. Deb Koster Parenting, Sex & Parenting, Sexuality, Sex & Parenting
October 28, 2018 Couples Who Cannot Have Sex Rev. Dr. Rob Toornstra Marriage, Sex & Marriage, Sexuality, Sex & Marriage
March 22, 2018 Sex: It doesn’t Mean What You Think It Means Rev. Dr. Rob Toornstra Sexuality, Sex & Marriage
January 25, 2018 Too Busy for Sex? Rev. Kelly Vander Woude Marriage, Sex & Marriage, Sexuality, Sex & Marriage
July 20, 2017 Four Gateways to Intimacy Rev. Deb Koster Marriage, Growing Your Marriage, Spiritual Intimacy, Sex & Marriage, Sexuality, Sex & Marriage, Spirituality, Spiritual Intimacy
June 28, 2017 Summer Reading to Grow Your Marriage Rev. Dr. Rob Toornstra Marriage, Growing Your Marriage, Sex & Marriage, Sexuality, Sex & Marriage
June 22, 2017 Help for the Sexless Marriage Rev. Dr. Rob Toornstra Marriage, Sex & Marriage, Sexuality, Sex & Marriage
March 30, 2017 Why Pastors Have Affairs: Sacred Boundaries and Sexual Abuse Rev. Dr. Steven Koster Dating, Dating Well, Sex & Dating, Marriage, Growing Your Marriage, Spiritual Intimacy, Conflict & Crisis, Sex & Marriage, Divorce & Remarriage, Sexuality, Sex & Dating, Sex & Marriage, Spirituality, Spiritual Intimacy
March 16, 2017 Talking to Kids about Sex Rev. Deb Koster Parenting, Parenting Kids, Sex & Parenting, Sexuality, Sex & Parenting
March 13, 2017 Sex is God’s Idea: Sexuality is Part of God’s Perfect Plan Rev. Dr. Steven Koster Marriage, Growing Your Marriage, Sex & Marriage, Sexuality, Sex & Marriage
February 2, 2017 The First Step Towards Freedom from Pornography Dr. Robert Ritzema Dating, Sex & Dating, Marriage, Sex & Marriage, Sexuality, Sex & Dating, Sex & Marriage, Sex & Parenting
October 17, 2016 4 Lies Porn Told Me, and the Truth that Set Me Free Christopher Hunt Dating, Sex & Dating, Marriage, Sex & Marriage, Sexuality, Sex & Dating, Sex & Marriage
September 1, 2016 Is this Allowed? Guidelines for Christian Sex Rev. Dr. Rob Toornstra Sexuality, Sex & Marriage
July 14, 2016 Not Tonight Honey Rev. Dr. Rob Toornstra Marriage, Sex & Marriage, Sexuality, Sex & Dating, Sex & Marriage, Sex & Parenting
March 7, 2016 Human Sexuality and The Biblical Story Rev. Mark Pluimer Dating, Sex & Dating, Marriage, Sex & Marriage, Sexuality, Sex & Dating, Sex & Marriage
February 29, 2016 A Biblical Approach to Masturbation Rev. Dr. Rob Toornstra Dating, Living Single, Sex & Dating, Marriage, Sex & Marriage, Parenting, Sex & Parenting, Sexuality, Sex & Dating, Sex & Marriage, Sex & Parenting
March 9, 2015 Talking to Kids About Sex: Freaking Out Over the Sex Talk Rev. Deb Koster Parenting, Parenting Kids, Sex & Parenting, Sexuality, Sex & Parenting
July 3, 2014 Sexuality: God's Design for a Full Life Charlene Brouwer, MA, LAMFT Dating, Sex & Dating, Marriage, Sex & Marriage, Parenting, Sex & Parenting, Sexuality, Sex & Dating, Sex & Marriage, Sex & Parenting
June 19, 2014 8 Tips for Caring for Your Marriage Doug Van Til, MSW, LCSW Dating, Marriage Preparation, Marriage, Newlyweds, Growing Your Marriage, Conflict & Crisis, Sex & Marriage, Divorce & Remarriage, Sexuality, Sex & Marriage
August 19, 2013 Dating Qualifications: So You'd Like to go out With Someone... Elizabeth Elgersma, MSW, LCSW Dating, Living Single, Dating Well, Marriage Preparation, Sex & Dating, Parenting, Parenting Teens, Sexuality, Sex & Dating
May 12, 2009 Speaking Explicitly About Sex Rev. Dr. Steven Koster Marriage, Sex & Marriage, Sexuality, Sex & Marriage

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