Encouragement: Daily Sparks

  • Worry: Trust God to do What is Best

    Worry allows the devil a foot hold by planting seeds of doubt in lives. Turn your worries over to your awesome God and trust him to do what is best.

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  • Worry: God Gives Us Hope

    Worry doubts God's plan and provision. Jeremiah 29:11 tells us that God intends to prosper us and not to harm us, giving us hope for the future. Choose hope over worry!

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  • Worry: God Works Through Our Problems

    Worry focuses on the problem rather than on the God of the universe who walks with us through our problems.

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  • Worry: Lean on God

    Worry and fear show a lack of trust in God's ability to carry us through our challenges. Lean on God and find that he is faithful.

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  • Worry: Try Prayer Instead

    Worry accomplishes nothing: which of you by worrying can add a year to your life? Try prayer, it is a lot more effective.

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  • Living Your Faith: Begin and End with God

    Our day should begin dedicated to God and committed to following his leading in our lives. It should end with thanks to God for all of his blessings.

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  • Living Your Faith: Don’t Just Live it at Home

    Deuteronomy 6:7 tells us that teaching our children about faith should not end at our door. Tell your family how you see God at work in all the places that you go.

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  • Living Your Faith: Teach God’s Truth

    Deuteronomy 6:7 tells us that we should be diligently teaching God's truth to our children in our homes. Get intentional about sharing your faith with your kids.

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  • Living Your Faith: Live as an Example

    Before we can impress God's commandments upon others, they need to be on our own hearts. Live the example for your family.

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  • Living Your Faith: Love God Fully

    Teaching our children to love God begins with loving God fully. Let them see your passion for your savior!

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  • Young Adults: Don’t Fund Poor Choices

    Don't fund your kids' poor choices. If adult kids need money or toys, they need to earn it by working for it. Giving them money only creates further dependence.

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  • Young Adults: Tune In and Listen

    Some of the best help we can support adult kids is to take the time to listen and tune into their lives. Life can feel full of uncertainty and you can be a sounding board.

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  • Young Adults: Give Guidance (Sparingly)

    Young adults still need guidance to get to a place of being independent. Share advice sparingly so they don't feel like they are constantly being lectured.

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  • Young Adults: Boundaries

    Boundaries need to be clearly defined so that young adults have clear guidelines for their responsibilities within the household. As adults, they can and should contribute like adults.

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  • Young Adults: From Freedom to Responsibility

    Young adults struggle with relinquishing the freedoms of childhood to assume the responsibilities of adulthood. Make your expectations clear.

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  • Caregiving: Get Help from Others

    Caregivers burn out when they try to manage everything on their own. Allow others the blessing of helping you along.

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  • Caregiving: Lean on Your Community of Faith

    God will provide the strength for persevering through challenges. Lean on him and  those he has given you to support you from within your community of faith.

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  • Caregiving: Celebrate Your Blessings

    There is joy to be found in accepting changes and finding the blessings in each day. Nothing will be gained by focusing on what  gifts God chose not to give you. Celebrate the blessings you have.

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  • Caregiving: Let God Hear Your Hurts

    Grieving the losses that we experience is a necessary part of accepting our situation in life. Let God hear your hurts, he cares about each tear that falls.

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  • Caregiving: Honor Your Commitments

    When we marry, we promise for better or for worse and in sickness and in health. Life will not always go smoothly, but we need to honor our commitments even when the road is difficult.

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  • Unequally Yoked: Share Your Testimony

    Share with your family how much your faith means to you personally. Personal testimony carries spiritual weight and it is hard to argue with someone's experience.

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  • Unequally Yoked: Bring the Kids to Church

    Kids may be resistant to attending church especially when one parent chooses not to go, but keep encouraging their participation and ask your spouse to support you. Get others at church to befriend your kids.

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  • Unequally Yoked: Connect Spiritually with Your Kids

    If your spouse doesn't want dinner time devotions, set another time to connect spiritually with your kids. Read and pray with them and show them how much you value your faith.

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  • Unequally Yoked: Be Jesus to Your Family

    If your spouse doesn't practice faith, it is even more important to be the living, breathing example of Jesus that your kids (and your spouse) need to see.

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  • Unequally Yoked: Keep a United Front

    Parenting is always difficult when you and your spouse are not in agreement, not least on religion. As much as possible, keep a united front and show each other respect.

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Resources

  • Successful Step Families

    Ron Deal

    Step families come with a variety of challenges to weather from the moment they say “I do.” Ron Deal addresses specific challenges and offers biblical insight as well as clinical experience as a marriage and family therapist to help equip couples for the journey ahead. He offers hope and encouragement for helping families navigate establishing working relationships within the new family as well as with the extended family.

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  • Marriage is a gift

    http://glendora.patch.com/articles/your-marriage-is-a-gift Advice for weathering the storms of marriage from the Glendora Patch

    "More importantly, if it is so difficult, why bother trying to make marriage work? For starters, it is one of the greatest gifts you can give your children. Research consistently shows that children tend to fare better in married, two-parent households. The investment you make in your marriage not only rewards you and your spouse, the dividends spill over to your children as well"

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